Ok...it seems that everyone has different opinions as to what these rules should be, but the basic agreement is that the world of 805 is a place for women to gather, chat, and have fun, which I see plenty of daily and i love it!...*smile*...

Now, there have been several opinions expressed over the course of time about who should be "allowed" to chat here. This is what I have to say: Our805 is a Free Room...access is given to everyone... ..this includes male, female, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, bi-curious, trans-sexual, hetero-sexual, citizen, non-citizen...(hoping that I have not excluded any category of chatters). BUT, there is something called "acceptable behavior" which every chatter is requested to adhere to...and if you do not comply, then you will either be ignored, harrassed, asked to leave, or a combination of all three....in any case, your chat experience in Our805 will be less than desireable.

Over time, 805 developed certain characteristics which were passed along to Old805, and now to Our805. It is considered by the majority to be a place for women to meet, granted with sexual untertones...and overtones...*smile*..., but not limited to chat of a sexual nature. That doesn't mean only certain women are allowed, i.e. lesbians,...it means just what it says...a place for women to meet...but with the primary purpose for lesbian and bi-sexual women to meet....not the only purpose...(trying to make this point clear...hoping I am not failing miserably at doing so). Okay, to define the "acceptable behavior" is kind of tricky...but I will give it my best shot. Behavior that is deemed acceptable is sort of determined by the chatters in the room. For example, if someone enters the room and demonstrates explicit sexual behavior, the chatters in the room may or may not appreciate such behavior. If this particular person is asked by another chatter in the room to either leave or adhere to the current demeanor of the room, then the "acceptable behavior" would be to either leave or tone it down a bit. On the other hand, the chatters in the room might really get into the sexual behavior of the person and join in...in that case, the current demeanor of the room would be of a more sexual nature. BUT, popular nettiquete of Our805 is to take extreme sexual behavior to private chambers.

Alright, the issue of whether or not men are allowed to chat in Our805 has been quite a focal point over the course of time. I will say this once and for all - men are allowed to chat in Our805...as long as they adhere to the definition of "acceptable behavior", just like every other chatter. If a man walks into Our805 and starts hitting on everything that moves, guaranteed he will be ignored or asked to leave,...or referred to this rules page, because in general that is not considered "acceptable behavior". This is not to say that men are not allowed to flirt with chatters of the room...but guys, please remember and understand...this is a room primarily for lesbian and bi-sexual women looking for other lesbian and bi-sexual women...your chances of "scoring" are ~very~ low here...*smile*......i suppose it would be more accurate to state that "gentlemen" are allowed to chat here...

There is one more point I would like to make. The success or failure of Our805 is in the hands of it's inhabitants. I cannot be here 24 hours a day to tell any "unwanted element" to leave...and (by my decision) it is not my place to determine the current demeanor of the room...I give that to you, the chatters. So, with that in mind, it is up to you to refer people to this "rules" page when necessary, and it is up to you to define what is acceptable and what isn't. I created this room not to gain control of the room for myself, but to give You the control of Your room.

And one final note...the following is the quote from the original room rules...it was something said in 805 in response to a man asking if he, being a sweet guy, could join the chat...it was said in fun, and should be seen in that light:
"The women of 805 will talk with ya, but don't hit on us...don't pursue conversation with women who express their desire to Not talk with you,...and if you ever get the attitude that all a lesbian needs is a "good man", then hit the road jack............got it?.....good..........now,...sit down, have a drink, and jump in the conversation somewhere...*smile*... "

...sincerely, lexy...